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Ready to unlock your ability to connect with others?

We believe all Christians can make an incredible impact for Christ in their relationships at home, in business, at church, and everywhere they go. They teach people how to apply key principles to their conversations and relationships, and trust the Holy Spirit as they show care and concern to those around them. 

Scott & Abigail take 15 years of experience in pastoring, discipleship, and coaching and pair it with a passion to equip ordinary people to be ready to help others.  

The seven skills in this book are accessible to everyone, and applying them will: 

  • Unlock your potential to connect in a meaningful way

  • Give you courage to engage in authentic conversation with the people who matter most

  • Develop your understanding of care for people who are stuck, in transition, hurting, grieving, or dealing with life circumstances

  • Deepen the relationships in your small group or on your team

  • Pave the way for you to represent Christ well inside and outside the church

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Why now?

Never has there been a time where authentic conversation was necessary. With all the political unrest, racial tension, and church divides, it is essential that Christians learn how to be the church no matter where they go.

Many Christians are living in shallow relationships, not knowing how to go deeper. Even those involved with a small group claim a disconnect with others in the group. When people open up about their struggles, Christians tend to offer silver lining or trite advice or the reference of a biblical principle, expecting that to make someone feel cared for.

Unfortunately, quick fixes and trite Christian phrases are not enough to bring us into authentic, deep conversation with each other and to show genuine care for those who are stuck or hurting.  

People want fast food encounters with others, but that will only leave us hungry and malnourished. As churches see their numbers diminishing, and their visitors decreasing, we have a critical problem on our hands. We lack the skills to connect and we are missing the JOY that comes from authentic fellowship and genuine conversation.

Take a peek inside…

  • Foundational Truths

  • 18 Common Myths

  • 7 Essential Skills 

Access our YouTube channel, Facebook group, and website for more practical ways to apply the truths of the book.

What People are Saying

  • Practice these skills & your life with Christ will be transformed

    ...Scott and Abigail are leading the way in empathic and bold connection that leads others to a deeper walk with Christ. For those brave enough to become a tool that God can use to draw others to Him through deep coaching conversations: practice these authentic conversational skills and your life with Christ will be transformed as well.

    Lantz Howard, M.MFT Discipleship Pastor | ICF Associate Certified Coach Denison, TX

  • Abigail and Scott Doust are the real deal

    Abigail and Scott Doust are the real deal with years of impactful ministry under their belts. This book is full of insightful and significant information for those of us who have a growth mindset and want to disciple others well.

    Sonya Jacobs, MABC Marriage Ministry Pastor, Preston Trail Community Church Founder/CEO, Enjoy Your Marriage Ministries Frisco, TX

  • excites us about the positive, eternal impact God will make through us

    Thoroughly biblical, thoroughly researched, thoroughly tested—and thoroughly helpful! This book not only dispels the myths that keep us from meaningful interactions, it also educates and excites us about the positive, eternal impact God will make through us—and in us!

    George Prinzing Pastor, TriCounty Baptist Church Lady Lake, FL

  • ...love and care for a hurting world.

    Scott and Abigail….have become trusted partners and advocates. I am excited that they are getting the opportunity to share with you the things they have learned through their lived experience and experiences in helping others. My prayer is that this book would be a powerful tool for equipping people to love and care for a hurting world.

    Jennifer Aguirre, LPC, MABC Counselor to Adults, Teens, and Children McKinney, TX

  • ...heart and key skills needed to impact and transform

    ….At a time when the church desperately needs to experience true discipleship, this book delivers a unique blueprint that equips serious believers with the heart and key skills needed to impact and transform those who want to get real and go deeper in their relationships with God and others.…”

    Tom and Lisa Hummel Relationship Coaches, Founders of Forever One Ministries Stanley, NC

  • practical, realistic and actionable

    Initiating crucial conversations leads to healed and transformed people and relationships….Scott and Abigail are transparent and winsome. I believe you will find this book to be practical, realistic and actionable—an invaluable tool for ministry in today’s world.

    Rev. Belinda Selfridge Local Outreach Pastor, First Wesleyan Church Adjunct Professor, Oklahoma Wesleyan University Bartlesville, OK

  • help you be an agent for positive, spiritual change

    ….The tools, tips and personal stories offered in this immensely practical book will help you be an agent for positive, spiritual change in the lives of those God puts in your path…. And, as a pastor to families and youth of all I ages I know that learning to listen, really listen well, to your children lays the foundation for profoundly deep and secure parental relationships that will provide a firm platform for generational impact.

    David Klippert-Rowe Executive Pastor, Christ Fellowship McKinney, TX

Can you relate? Some of our reasons…

  • I’m not a very good listener, so I’m not a good person to engage hard topics.

  • There are other people closer to this situation, so it’s probably better for them to reach out.

  • I don’t feel comfortable asking questions—I don’t want to offend them or appear to be nosy.

  • Isn’t there a program or a class going on that we could invite them to? It’s too messy and uncertain to get into their specific situation.

  • I can’t talk with hurting people—I don’t know what to say.

  • I am dealing with my own stuff, and not really winning at life. What do I have to offer without going under myself?

  • My life is lacking in spiritual roots and I have areas which need growth. Wouldn’t it be hypocritical to tell them how to move forward when I know I am not doing those things myself?

  • I’m not trained. I will leave those conversations to the more mature leaders or trained professionals.